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Band or DJ?
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Band or DJ?

When ready to choose your wedding music keep one thing in mind, the music is the backbone of the whole affair. Without good music all the planning and primping means naught. Whether you choose a wedding band or a DJ is a matter of personal taste. I'll try to give you the pros and cons of each.

People are accustomed to hearing music as they know it, beat for beat. This is a big plus for the DJ. You must be careful though, as many DJ's put on a show of their own. Sometimes this show is so flashy that it detracts from the attention of the bride and groom, and the Disc Jockey now becomes the main attraction. If you shop carefully, you'll find a nice middle of the road DJ with great music and a good personality, that can get the room rocking.

Some will argue there is no substitute for a good band, and I agree. (if you've found the right one) Had you asked me ten years ago, I would have cringed at the thought of a Disc Jockey doing a wedding. However, a number of DJ's have the business down to a science, and do a first class job.

Regardless of what you decide, the most important thing still boils down to good personality. I've heard bands that played flawlessly, but had no personality, and the guests had to do their own thing. On the other hand, I've seen bands whose music was mediocre at best, yet they had great personality and got the guests involved. Remember, people are mostly followers not leaders, they will all get on a Conga line, but few will be brave enough to start it.

 

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