Rehearsal
Dinners - Why Have One and How to Throw One
Rehearsal dinners usually take
place after the wedding rehearsal, normally held the day before
the actual wedding ceremony. Although the rehearsal dinner is not
a "required" wedding event, they're a great way to get
everyone who is involved with the wedding a chance to meet one another
and to relax before the wedding takes place.
Traditionally, the rehearsal
dinner is hosted by the grooms parents, although anyone can play
host such as the bride's parents, or a close family member or friend.
Regardless of who hosts, you want to make sure that they are involved
with the planning process, such as where the event will be held
or what will be served for dinner.
The guest list normally includes
the bride and groom, their parents and the entire wedding party.
Other guests often included are the grandparents, the dates of the
wedding party, the Clergy person who will be performing the ceremony
and their guest, other members of the family not in the wedding
party and out-of-town guests. You may need to check the size of
your rehearsal dinner budget to see if these other guests can be
accommodated to stay within your budget.
Many brides question if it is
necessary to send out invitations to the rehearsal dinner or not.
Normally a phone call is sufficient, but some brides opt to make
their own invitations and send them out through the mail. If you
decide to send out invitations and aren't sure what to say, try
the following wording:
Please Join us for a Rehearsal
Dinner
in Honor of (Bride's Name) and (Groom's Name)
at (this location)
at (this time)
RSVP: (Hosts Name) at (phone
number)
The next step is to figure out
is where to have the rehearsal dinner. Some popular rehearsal dinner
places include a private room at a restaurant, a private club, a
BBQ, a small room at your reception site or a private home. Things
to keep in mind; if you are having a rehearsal, choose someplace
close by to hold the dinner so people won't have to drive all over
to get there. Also keep in mind that if you inviting any out of
town guests, that you provide them with a very good map of how to
get the dinner and back to their hotel (or where ever they are staying).
A good option is to carpool so they won't get lost.
Wondering what to have for dinner?
That is entirely up to you and the host; you can have a formal dinner
or a more relaxed meal. Many brides decide to have a more informal
rehearsal dinner, to keep everyone relaxed for the wedding activities
that are coming up. Right before dinner is served, the host will
usually say a few words and give a toast to the bride and groom,
and often a few other toasts will be given as well.
This is also the perfect time
to give the wedding party and the parents their gifts. The bride
and groom will usually say a few words before handing them out;
they generally will thank everyone for being in the wedding party
as well as say a few other heartfelt words.
The Rehearsal Dinner is a great
way to have a relaxing time with your bridal party and is usually
the kickoff to the wedding festivities soon to come.
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