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Who Pays for What at Weddings?

In today's society there is a lot of flexibility when it comes to who pays for what at weddings. Generally, it comes down to who can afford to pay for what wedding services.

Here is a general guideline as to how it has traditionally been accepted as to who pays for which wedding services:

The Bride Pays For

  • Personal stationery
  • Wedding ring for groom
  • Wedding gift for groom
  • Gifts for attendants
  • Physical examination

The Groom Pays For

  • Bride's rings
  • Honeymoon
  • Formalwear and accessories
  • Wedding gift for bride
  • Bridal bouquet and going-away corsage
  • Boutonnieres for all men in wedding party
  • Mothers' corsages
  • Physical examination / blood test
  • Gifts for best man, ushers
  • Gloves, ties or ascots for men in wedding party
  • Marriage license
  • Lodging for out-of-town attendants
  • Fee for clergy or judge

The Bride's Family Pays For

  • Wedding gift for newlyweds
  • Entire reception
  • Rental of sanctuary or chapel
  • Bride's wedding attire and trousseau
  • Invitations, announcements & postage
  • Engagement and wedding photographs
  • Organist, soloist and sexton fees
  • Aisle carpets and/or canopy, and any additional decorating costs
  • Bridesmaids' bouquets
  • Flowers for reception
  • Transportation for bridal party to ceremony and reception
  • Security and insurance gifts
  • Wedding coordinator's fee
  • Wedding cake
  • Parking costs
  • Coat check fees
  • Gratuities for bartenders and waiters

The Groom's Family Pays For

  • Traveling expenses and hotel bills
  • Wedding clothes
  • Rehearsal dinner
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds
  • Shipment of wedding gifts to bridal couple's new home

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